S P O N T A N E I T Y   A N D   L O V E M A K I N G

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PART 2
THE TOUCH
Naturally, the same spontaneous principle is valid for your hands. A spontaneous and loving caress is like a kiss of the fingers and the skin.

Just as there is something ineffable and special inside of us when we kiss, when we feel our beloved’s lips, mouth and tongue, there is that same something that applies to the touch of the hands.

Honore de Balzac realized this and expressed it admirably in "The Psychology of Marriage":

"The hand is the way through which the entire force of a person manifests, and it is quite remarkable that the people with a powerful intellect almost always have beautiful hands, because perfect hands are the characteristic of a superior mind. Through the pores of the hand circulates the very essence of life and anything they touch is imprinted with a magical force."

The hands have a priceless role in all of love’s pleasures and games. The hands can be dry, burning, wet, cold, soft, harsh or oily. They can be gentle, rough, thrilling, caressing or rigid. In short, the hands represent and give birth to a mysterious phenomenon that we are tempted to call "the reincarnation of the soul" in the hand.

THE MUSIC OF EMOTION
It is absurd and unnatural to direct our hands and fingers in order to stimulate only certain anatomic areas, as does a piano player who carefully places each of his fingers in order to touch only one part of the piano at a time.

Fortunately, our hands intuitively know the correct notes they need to play in order to awaken and express feelings of love, to awaken the harmonious and elevating music in your beloved’s body.

Gradually, we start to feel in a very direct manner the echo of all the wonderful experiences our beloved has, perceived as a vibration of the entire body, as if your common experiences enhanced and amplified one another, amidst spontaneous crescendos, rhythms and melodies that become a genuine creation of emotional echoes.

Be it a finger, a hand, both hands, or your entire bodies, it is all touch. A kiss is a touch. So is lovemaking itself. In fact, foreplay and lovemaking have more things in common than we might imagine, and passing from foreplay to lovemaking needs to be natural and fluid.

If both lovers are spontaneous, then the caresses, kisses, foreplay and lovemaking are all an embrace sprung out of passionate and endless love. It is all like a poem dedicated to spring, whose end was never written and it never will.


AN ORIENTAL EXERCISE
In the Tai Chi meditation and dance, there are certain exercises for couples, that consist of pushing your lover with your hands and being pushed back at the same time.

In fact, this is about preserving a very light contact with the partner, so that you would be able to feel what he or she feels; this allows us to be able to spontaneously answer the feeling translated by a game of reverberations and echoes coming from the energies that pass through our hands.

The intuitive answer we give is the true guide of this harmonious dance. Those gliding movements of leading the dance or allowing one's self to be lead are more important than learning the steps or the rhythm of the music.

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