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WHAT IS THE G-SPOT?
Until the 1970s very few experts were aware of an area in men or women that if correctly stimulated, produced exquisite sexual sensations and often an orgasm.

This area has come to be known as the G-spot - after Ernest Grafenberg, the German gynecologist who discovered it in the 1940s.
Every woman has a G-spot and every woman can get a pleasant feeling when their front vaginal wall is caressed.

If the G-spot exists, what is it? There is little doubt that the urinary passage, or urethra, of a woman has both urinary and sexual functions. Although the opening is just above the vaginal one (as any woman can easily see if she looks in a mirror) the whole length of the urethra runs beside the front vaginal wall.

Some researchers have conclusively shown that the urethra is surrounded by little glands. When a woman starts to become sexually aroused these glands swell up with fluid and the whole area fills with blood.

For both sexes, sexual arousal determines that the pelvic organs swell with blood. In a man, this produces an erection which is obvious and visible, but in a woman much of the "erection" occurs inside her body. Her clitoris swells rather like a man's penis and her vulva becomes enlarged. So the major increase of blood flow and tissue swelling occurs inside her, unseen.

STIMULATING HER G-SPOT
There are methods and lovemaking positions that increase a man's chance to find the G-spot of his lover. Here they are:

1. The woman has to lie face down on the bed with two pillows underneath her hips, so that her bottom is slightly in the air and her are legs apart. Then the man can gently insert two fingers palm down and stroke the frontal vaginal wall.

2. THE WOMAN ON TOP POSITION
When the woman is on top, she can angle her body so that the penis stimulates just the right spot. She can also caress her clitoris to amplify the pleasure.

3. THE REAR ENTRY POSITION
By making love in the rear entry position, the man can angle his entry to stimulate her front vaginal wall.
By experimenting with different positions, a couple can decide what angle is best to find and stimulate the woman's G-spot.